Two people who just fall in love, although it is the beginning of love, but also have a lot of understanding of each other, if the boy does not know what to talk about, it is easy to make the beginning of love immediately ended. What is the key to start a love chat, remember these three misconceptions, talk about the words to talk about these three emotional topics.
Three erroneous zone
First, don't be too hasty. Love should be smooth, because love is a matter of two people, one side is too eager to let the other side feel you have no charm, you are eager to happen something. That's it. It's easy to scare each other.
Second, understand the other person's needs. You need to understand each other's heart is how to think, otherwise what you say is in vain, because a lot of times, we need to understand each other's needs in order to appropriate medicine, in order to understand each other's correct meaning.
Third, anxious to meet each other's parents. For girls, it takes time for two people to get to know each other, and it's the same for a relationship. You have to take each other home as soon as you meet each other.
Three emotional topics
The first topic: talk about some common childhood experiences, enhance the relationship, but also can let the two sides feel each other's experience, grinding each other.
The second topic: talk about the future, which will make the other side feel at ease. When you talk about the future with her, you show that you want to go with her for a long time, and it is not just a casual love on a whim, but also makes her feel respected.
The third topic: talk about the present, talk about the feelings of each other, where do you like to play, what do you like to eat, what do you dislike, where does she like to go on her birthday, remember these, deepen her love for you!
Master these 3 techniques to get you off the hook quickly
Chatting with girls is a very painful thing, because you have to understand each other's subtext, also have to try to figure out the meaning of the other side's words, etc., if you do not say the words in place, the other side may not want to talk to you, and you chat began to pervert, to you love to ignore and so on. How to avoid this situation, today we teach you to chat with a girl's 3 skills, let you easily get rid of the chat difficulties.
The first technique, there's a sense of substitution. For example, when a girl tells you that she is under a lot of pressure today, her boss and colleagues all criticize her, which makes her feel particularly stressed. I want to tell you today, when women say this, we don't give them solutions, we give them empathy, you can say something, you can understand how you feel. Let your girl feel a sense of belonging.
The second tip is to pay attention to your sense of humor. Humorous men are especially popular with women. Girls are very emotional animals, perhaps today because of the weather rain, her mood will be particularly bad. Therefore, they need someone with a special sense of humor to help them relieve their emotions and bring them happiness. Humor is the need to accumulate, need to pay more attention to some variety shows or see some funny jokes, this is the line.
The third tip is to talk about familiar areas. When chat with Chinese girls, you should pay attention to two things, first, don't talk about anything you don't know, let's say you talk to your girl, you look a little bit of diffuse, began a lot of talk about movies to her, but the girl know more than you know, deeper, then found at the end of the chat, you despised by the other side, because the girl know more than you know. So we're going to talk about things that we know, that girls don't.
