No one will leave you without warning, and nothing will kill a person in a flash. The leaves are a little yellow and the heart is a little dead. Like a man who wants to break up with you, he must have been rehearsing for the last time.
1. What two people need is mutual understanding. The reality is that no one knows everything about each other. So two people in a relationship, don't be too melodramatic. If both of them can take a step back, the relationship can still be fully developed.
2. Here are two ways to deal with conflicts and prevent each other from breaking up with each other because they don't understand each other. -Shelving method, The two sides don't know how to back down, so to argue on this issue will only make the rift between the two of them grow bigger and bigger. But some things are actually less important. Problems that can't be solved in a short time can be shelved. The ones that you think are important now are actually less important years later. -Create new relationships In a short period of time, two people can in another way, looking for a new relationship models, such as similar problems again, two people can be solved in the "flirt", or feel forced to each other is too tight, more space for each other, learn to appropriate "range" in the relationship.
3. What is important is to make changes accordingly, rather than an argument. When the argument exceeds a certain level, only negative effects can be brought. To change oneself is to have infinite possibility to dig.
Sometimes, changing the way two people are accustomed to the way they deal with problems can be much more interesting than switching arguments to other ways. In fact, the quarrel between lovers is not for the sake of fighting, but is expected to understand themselves. If you understand each other, you will not have so many fights, and you will not have the heartbreak and the breakup.
